Obviously most of the stories here are garbage, but I must respond to the young lady in #3936 who asks if there are any decent guys out here. Judge for yourself... I'm a fun-loving, well educated guy with a good job and better than average looks. And I'm still a virgin even though I've had countless opportunities to "lose it" with some beautiful women. The voyeurs here would probably like to hear the details about the time I woke up in my own bed during a fraternity party with my friend's girlfriend on top of me with her tongue in my mouth, or the time I had a naked blond laying on top of me, crying, because I wouldn't have sex with her. Believe me, sex is easy to find. Ask the total strangers who have come on to me in bars or parties. I'm sure they were able to find another guy after I said no. It's love that's hard to find. But true love is worth waiting for. A female friend once asked why there aren't more guys like me. My answer: because it's not easy. (But it would be alot easier if more girls waited too!)