You might be wondering why I lost it so late in life; well,
probably because I had a good Christian upbringing and
also was a very shy guy with girls. As a matter of fact
this whole thing happened while I was invloved at a
Christian camp in the Adirondack Mountains of New York
State. It seems like the whole staff was having their
first time there, only the staff was a bit younger than I,
about 15-20 years of age. The woman closest to my age was the camp nurse.
I had already had a date with the camp cook and I thought
she was pretty hot, but a bit younger than I. The nurse
had no one her age to really date. It so happened we had
the same day off and I suggested we drive to a remote lake
in the Adirondacks for a hike. I had the great idea that
we would go for a swim, only we didn't have any bathing
suits. I was totally shocked when she agreed to swim in
our underwear--no questions asked. Well, while we were in
the water I decided it was time to remove my underwear and
let it dry on a rock! She thought that was cool and took
hers off too. But before anything could happen she stepped
on a sharp object and started bleeding. We got out of the
water and dressed not looking at each other and figured
we'd head out to get her stitched up---so much for sex,
I thought. Well, I was right, because we tried driving
out of the area and hit a hill that was too steep and
the car kept skidding. I built a little ramp out of wood,
We got her to the doctor, and of course, he had to ask her
how she got the cut. She, being a Christian, told him the
truth that she'd been skinny dipping, and he said, "Yeah---
right!" Well, she was ok and we went out to eat at a neat
hotel in Long Lake, then drove back toward camp. We were
low on gas and I wondered if anything else was going to
go wrong. When we got to camp we heard stories that two
counselors had taken off their bathing suits in the camp
water right in front of the kids---that was pretty tacky,
don't you think? Well, me and the nurse still had some
time left on our day off so we headed for her room, and
that's when the action finally got started. I lost it
under some pretty weird circumstances but it was wonderful
and exciting. I didn't marry her, but probably disappointed
her because she really liked and loved me. I went through
a few more women before I finally committed myself to one
and found that marriage and faithfulness is the most
wonderful thing that can happen to a person. Today I
have the opportunity to teach sexual ethics to junior high
students and I really think that I have an important job
there. I know this was a lot for you to read, but I pray
that your sex lives may be fulfilled and that you find
the happiness of being in a loving and committed relationship.
That's what God wants for us and I believe all people want
for themselves whether they admit it or not.