While I was somewhere I didn't want to be for about a year, I met the most incredible, caring soul on the net. She's a virgin and she wants to stay that way until marriage. We met in a chat room and quickly fell in love. I have seen her in RL and truthfully, she is everything I imagined. We are still strong today. The point is I respect her views on virginity and marriage. I am not a virgin, but if we were married, I would regret that I'm not a virgin for our first time. There are so many bullshit stories on here, but remember, sex without love and respect is nothing more than stray animals. She has shown me there is so much more. Women don't be fooled by some line - you know if it's right and don't feel you have to explain it to someone who is pushing too hard. If it's right, go for it, but be sure it is what you want to do. Someone who truly loves you will respect you. It's really that simple. There is no need to rush. Enjoy life people and don't believe half of this stuff here.